SS02-29-04

STUDY THEME: DARE TO LIVE WITH DISCIPLINE.          2-29-04

“DISCIPLINED SERVICE.”  MATT. 20:20-28, R0M. 12: 9-13.

MATTHEW 20: 20-21, 22-24, 25-28.  ROMANS 12: 9-13.

PLEASE OPEN YOUR BIBLE TO MATTHEW 20.

 

In Matthew  20: 17-19 we have the first clear description of what Jesus would experience at the hands of the lawless men in Jerusalem. When we come to vs. 20-28 we see the disciples still expecting Jesus to set up His kingdom on earth. They still have faith in Jesus accomplishing His kingdom. Yet, they had been confused ever since Caesarea Philippi. He was always making them uncomfortable by talking of a cross, and they could not believe that by death life could begin; that through defeat a crown would come.

The disciples, even as the world today, measured a person in terms of his greatness. Jesus measures a person in terms of his service. These two contrasting value systems come into conflict in our lesson today. So let’s look first at the bold request of these relatives of Jesus.

 

1.     PLEASE READ MATTHEW 20: 20-21.

 

The most amazing thing about the request is that it came right after Jesus prediction of His approaching voluntary humiliation. The King had set His face toward Jerusalem, and the next thing was the cross, the thing for which He was almost eager; the thing concerning which He continued to speak to these men. But they were anxious about the keys, and the seats of power, and precedence. How familiar these are in our pursuits today.

Now comes His Aunt Salome, His mother’s sister with the two sons of Zebedee, James and John. Kin-folks are usually less hesitant to ask favors than others. We do not know if it was these two cousins of Jesus or their mother who initiated the request that was made. They came with a “blank check” request. How did Jesus respond to their request?

If Salome did not initiate the bold request, she was willing to ask this favor for her sons. She was not the first or the last parent who was overly ambitious for her children. More than likely James and John were behind the request. Jesus responded in vs. 22-23 by addressing the two men.

All the three came to Jesus in a spirit of worship or at least reverence, since the word may be rendered “knelt down”. Salome came desiring a certain thing of Him.  This was like asking, “Will You do us a favor?” Jesus asked, “What do you want?” She responded: Grant that these two sons may sit, the one on thy right hand, and the other on the left in thy kingdom.

The right hand was the place of highest honor and the left was the next.

James and John may have thought that they were the logical choices to be in these places. After all, In Matt. 17: 1 Jsus took only Peter, James and John with Him to the Mount of Transfiguration. They probably felt that these three formed a kind of inner circle among the twelve disciples. They may have felt that the outspoken Peter had lost his role as spokesman for the group. He had dared in Matt. 16:22-23 to rebuke Jesus. If Peter was out of the picture, that left only the two sons of Zebedee. Plus, these two were related to Jesus and Peter was not.

As we read this request, we are embarrassed for this mother and her two sons. Seen from the perspective of the cross and the resurrection, their request was totally inappropriate. The request showed that they had totally missed the main point that Jesus had been trying to teach them. Beginning with Peter’s confession, Jesus had been telling them of the necessity of His suffering, death, and resurrection. On that day He had told them whoever followed Him must deny himself and take up his cross. Peter had rebuked Jesus, showing how little he understood of the mission of the suffering Servant. Jesus repeated this teaching after the transfiguration. Jesus had made the same basic prediction just before this request was made.

The failure of James and John to understand is seen in the fact that their topic of conversation was which of them would be the greatest in the coming kingdom. On one occasion, during their argument, Jesus placed a little child in the middle. Then He said that no one would enter the kingdom until he came like a little child. He reinforced this by saying In Matt. 18:4, “Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.”

James’s and John’s request may have been based on what Jesus said in Matt. 19:28. “And Jesus said unto them, verily I say unto you, That ye which have followed me, in the regeneration when the Son of man shall sit in the throne of His glory, ye also shall sit upon twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel,” but they failed to hear these words in light of the context. After the rich young ruler had failed to give up all things in Matt 19: 16-26, Peter asked Jesus what their rewards would be. Jesus answered their question in two ways. First He assured the disciples of an abundant reward. He states these rewards in earthly terms that they could understand. One promise was that each of them would sit on one of 12 thrones, judging the 12 tribes of Israel. Picking upon this picture, James and John were asking to be on the thrones of greatest honor. They missed the second part of Jesus’ answer, which had the theme, “But, many that are first shall be last, and the last shall be first.” In order to illustrate this enigmatic saying; Jesus told the parable of the labors in the field in Matt. 20: 1-16. This story is not a lesson on fair payment for work; it teaches that all our so-called rewards are actually gifts of God’s grace.

 

2.     PLEASE READ MATTHEW 20: 22-23.

 

What did Jesus do with these disciples? Observe first, His patience in that He did not say one single angry word. Instead, in all tenderness He said, “You know not what you ask. Are you able to drink of the cup that I am about to drink?” And when they said, “We are able,’ He did not even then tell them that it was impossible. No, He allowed them to come into fellowship. Jesus told them that if they wanted to share the glory, they would have to share the suffering. Jesus then spelled out something of what that suffering would be. He tried to open their eyes to His mission and theirs.

Quickly and somewhat glibly they answered. We are able. There must have been sadness in the eyes of Jesus as He thought of the irony of their answer. They spoke more truth than they knew. He acknowledged that they would indeed share His cup and baptism, although only later would they realize what Jesus meant.

James was the first one of the to be put to death. Herod Agrippa 1, grandson of Herod the Great, executed James in Acts 12:1-2. John was exiled to an island late in his life in Rev. 1:9. Some ancient records say that he too was a martyr: others have him living to an old age. In light of John 21:22, the latter tradition was probably correct. In either case, both brothers faced persecution. They were able to face it because the Spirit empowered them.

Responding directly to the original request, Jesus said that He as the incarnate Son of God was not able to assign places on His right and left hand. These places were prepared of His Father. “During His incarnation, the Son of God remained functionally subordinate to the Father, despite their equality in essence.” Matthew 28:18 says that all authority will be delegated to Christ after His resurrection, but for now Jesus has voluntarily relinquished some of that authority.

In Philippines 2:5-8 Paul wrote, “Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus: Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God: But made himself of no reputation, and took upon Him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men: And being found in fashion as a man, He humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross.”

 

Lets turn now to the response of the other 10 disciples.

 

3.     PLEASE READ MATTHEW 20:24-28.

 

The other 10 disciples heard the conversation between Salome, Jesus, James and John. They became indignant with the two brothers. They might have thought Salome and her sons had taken unfair advantage based on their family relationship to Jesus. Probably the disciples’ indignation arose more from jealousy than anything else. Jesus praised selflessness, not selfishness.

When Jesus heard or saw the indignation that the 10 disciples had toward James and John, He called them over to Him and taught them how they and anyone else could become great and occupy a high place in His kingdom. First, He reminded them how the Gentiles looked at greatness and how their great leaders used their positions. Their rulers would dominate or lord it over their people and make the people serve them. But that is not the principle of His kingdom. His disciples must not be like the leaders of earthly kingdoms by seeking the highest place and lording it over the people and make the people serve them. On the contrary, in His kingdom anyone who would be great must be a servant, not a lord.

In earthly kingdoms, greatness is thought to be in those who hold the highest offices and exercise the most power over others. In Jesus’ kingdom, greatness is found in those who have given their lives to serve others.

Also, in His kingdom the person who wants to be first must be a slave to others. The word “slave” referred to a person who was owned by another, who was under their authority, and whose life was spent serving them and doing as they commanded. People in earthly kingdoms reward and look up to people whose greatness is due to office or position. In the Lord’s kingdom, people are rewarded by the Lord for their willingness to let Him be Lord and their willingness to serve Him as His slave. Neither kingdom acknowledges the principle used by the other. That is why serving others instead of seeking to rule over others is so strange and foreign to today’s world.  

To illustrate His principle of servant-hood, Jesus used Himself as an example. He reminded the disciples that the Son of Man did not come to this earth to be served, but to serve. The title Son of Man is one of the ways the N.T. refers to Jesus as God in the flesh and the agent of divine judgment. No one is greater than God, and no one is greater than the Judge of all. Yet He came to earth to serve all.

The way the Son of Man serves humanity was to give His life—a ransom for many. Christ willingly gave Himself so people could have eternal life. Servant-hood is based on giving to others, not being served by others. The ultimate gift to others is one’s life. Jesus gave people many great things (bread, healing, blessings). But His supreme gift was his life. Serving others in Christ’s name is a good discipline that advances personal growth in Christ-likeness. Servant-hood is a lifetime commitment that will mean giving one’s whole life to serving Christ.

Christ served all people by giving Himself as a ransom for many. A ransom was a price paid for the freedom or deliverance of a slave or a captive. We were captives and slaves to sin. But Jesus paid the price for our freedom, which was to give Himself as a substitutionary sacrifice for our sins. He died that all may be forgiven of their sins and experience His redemption. Many have trusted in Him, and many more need to come to Christ.  

When believers are servants, they become like Christ, who is the ultimate Servant. Christians need to resist the temptation to want to be served by everybody else, and they need to commit to the discipline of serving God and others. The more we serve, the more we grow in Christ-likeness.

 

PLEASE TURN TO ROMANS 12.

Paul is here writing to a church he had never seen but he knew several of the members of the church there. He was eager to have them involved in Christian service.

4.     PLEASE READ ROMANS 12: 9-13.

 

Vs. 21 ends with “conquer evil by doing good.” Paul spent a lot of time at the beginning of his letter to Rome on the need for believing what is good. Now he is getting down where we live. In fact, he is starting to sound like a meddler. He wants us to do what is good. Literally, to be glued to what is good.

We Christians speak much of loving God, loving one another, loving mankind. What does all this “lovely” talk mean? For one thing, says Paul, it means that you quit playing “let’s pretend.’ Quit being a phony.

For example, Paul says in vs. 9 that we should “Hate what is wrong. Stand on the side of good.” This means more than just staying out of trouble. It means getting involved with trying to change things for the better---where we work, around your school and above all, in your own home with your own family.

One of the major traps for Christians today is that we are surrounded by so much evil and sin that we grow used to it. We are no longer shocked. We learn to “get along,” to keep our mouth shut, to not make trouble. A lot of Christians avoid evil, but they do not hate it. A lot of Christians are for the good, but they do not fight for it. A lot of what is called Christianity is really passive compromise with sin.

But where do you get the power, the motivation to conquer evil by doing good? Love. Genuine love is the needed thing. “Don’t just pretend that you love others, really love them.” Romans 12 is a short course in being concerned for others rather than yourself. This is the hardest thing we can be asked to do. Our psychological make-up demands that we worry first about Old No. 1. Self-preservation is as natural as breathing. We are quick to defend ourselves and our rights. Our egos are labeled “handle with care. We bruise easily.

When God saved us, He placed us in a family of faith called he church. That was by divine design. He knows that believers need tangible expression of His love. Therefore, God’s Word instructs us to show family affection to one another with brotherly love. Our knowing that fellow believers genuinely care for us strengthens us. And our showing other believers that we love them is a powerful means of Christians service.

And then we become Christians. Suddenly, we have no rights, only duties. How unfair can things get? Yes, it would be unfair if the Christians had no resources, no help. To live as Paul suggests in Romans 12 is humanly impossible. It is, however, supernaturally possible, as he clearly pointed out back in chapters 6, 7, and 8 of Romans. Walking in the Spirit is not some quaint religious exercise. It is for the street, where you live.

Paul is getting painfully practical now. You say you are crucified with Christ? You say you have “died to sin and risen again with Christ?” What better way, then, to test all your new powers than to see if you actually can live and love unselfishly. To try to love others unselfishly and at the same time be concerned with standing up for your rights is a contradiction in terms. You cannot serve God and self. You cannot go around with the Bible in one hand and waving your personal Bill of Rights in the other.

But so few Christians really show unselfish love. Why should I be the one to start? Yes, why should you? You probably wouldn’t do a very good job of it anyway. People would just think you had suddenly gone a little hyper-spiritual or something. You could even lose some social prestige.

There all kinds of excuses ”to not get carried away” with the list of good deeds in Romans 12. But the excuses don’t make the standard any less valid. Paul is not nailing up a list of laws that the Christian has to obey without a slip. He is setting up goals to aim at, to set our sights on.

Do not lack diligence in vs. 11 is a way of saying, “Don’t be lazy.” How easy it is to drift spiritually, to let others do the praying and serving. Each church needs every member to grab and oar and row. Related to that is being fervent in spirit. Some Bible students view spirit as the Holy Spirit and understand this as a call to be constantly filled with the Spirit. The resulting idea in either case is being zealous to serve the Lord. The Spirit uses God’s people, God’s Word and prayer to renew and to fuel our passion for Christ.

Of course we won’t do a perfect job of unselfish loving. Of course we may be criticized, even laughed at. But when Paul talks in Romans 12 of honoring others, of never being lax in Christian zeal, of being glad and patient in trouble, of helping others in need, of praying for those who harm us…he is simply putting muscle on the idea of presenting our body as a “living sacrifice” as commanded in Rom. 12:1.

This business of being a living sacrifice was well put by a missionary who had this advice for a young fellow who was thinking about the mission field. “Instead of going to the refrigerator for a bite before gong to bed, or to the corner drugstore for a coke, try going to bed without it. You won’t die and you won’t miss it when you can’t get it out there.”

“But I’m not going to the mission field,” you say. Aren’t you? Where do you think you are right now? Is your home, or school, or place of work really any less a mission field than the streets of Bombay or the Auca country of Ecuador?

Every Christian is a missionary, because a missionary is one who is sent to bring and to be the Good News to others. Every Christian is called to present his body as a living sacrifice. Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them---by going out of your way to help them, by taking their guff, by overlooking their faults, by refusing to retaliate.    

Does our Christianity reveal a bogus brand of counterfeit love? Genuine Christian love means first that we sincerely, unselfishly offer our daily life to God. He then proves, tests, and tempers our sincerity and unselfishness by sending us out to live among our fellow men.

Christ came, lived, and died to serve all humanity. Everything that He said or did as well as how He said and did things had to do with His service. Everything Paul instructed believers to do in these verses were things Jesus did as God’s servant. As Christi’s servants, we must be consistent, genuine, and Christ-like. That goal is the reason for the need to exercise the discipline of service. 

We all fail, some of us many times, to show perfect Christian love. But faith begins where failure leaves off. We are not only saved from the penalty of sin by faith. We not only conquer sin and temptation by faith. We serve and love by faith as well.

Serving others often is more difficult than it sounds. Some people are more difficult to serve than others. Some show appreciation; others do not. Having the heart of a servant means that we sincerely care about others just as Jesus cared for us. We should want His love to flow through us to others regardless of whether we think they deserve it or not. After all, since Christ loves us, how can we do anything less than share His love with those around us? Let us diligently practice the discipline of serving others in Jesus name.

It is this living and loving and serving… it is in the daily routine---the “rat race” of life---that we have countless opportunities to be a living sacrifice… or just a burnt offering.

 

NEXT SUNDAY’S LESSON CERTAINLY FITS THE TIME IN WHICH WE LIVE. “COURAGE TO STAND FOR GOD.” DEBORAH AND BARAK ARE THE TWO JUDGES THAT ‘DEMONSTRATE SPIRITUAL LEADERSHIP.” JUDGES 4 & 5.                             A.V. DAUGHERTY SS02-29-04.